Self Promotion at Work

I used to think self-promotion meant bragging. Turns out it just means making sure the right people know what you’ve done. There’s a difference, and learning it changed how I move through my career. The people who get promoted aren’t always the best workers. They’re the ones whose work gets seen. That’s not a conspiracy — it’s just how organisations work. If nobody knows you shipped the thing that saved the quarter, you’re not going to get the promotion. ...

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Social

Notes on: Communication: Effective communication strategies with partners, family, and friends. Conflict resolution: Techniques for managing disagreements and strengthening relationships. Support systems: Identifying and nurturing supportive relationships and social networks. Quantified Self Time spent with family members Quality time with spouse or partner Dates or outings with friends Social events attended Phone calls made or received Text messages sent or received Video calls made or received Gifts given or received Acts of kindness performed Social media interactions (likes, comments, shares) New friendships formed Relationship conflicts or disagreements Resolved conflicts with loved ones Family traditions upheld Relationship goals progress Love languages identified and practised Personal boundaries maintained Emotional support provided to others Social skills practised or improved Loneliness levels assessed Family and Parenting Quality Time Quality time with children, spouse, parents, siblings Family outings or activities planned Family meetings held Family traditions maintained Parent-child bonding activities Family meals enjoyed together Household responsibilities shared Family memories captured or recorded Parenting Parenting challenges overcome Parenting victories celebrated Parenting goals progress Family communication improved Child development milestones tracked Parenting resources consumed (books, podcasts, workshops) Parenting philosophies explored Parenting support networks engaged with Positive Discipline Natural Consequences Time-out Bonding Activities Family Dinners Movie Nights Communication Skills Small Talk Topics Recent movies or TV shows you’ve watched and enjoyed Books you’ve read recently or your favourite authors Hobbies or interests you both share, such as cooking, hiking, or painting Current events or news stories that have caught your attention Travel experiences or dream destinations you’d like to visit Personal goals or aspirations you’re working towards Funny anecdotes or memorable experiences from your past Music you’ve been listening to lately or concerts you’ve attended Food preferences or new recipes you’ve tried Technology trends or gadgets you find interesting Active Listening Empathy Conflict Resolution Fair Fighting Rules Compromise Sibling Dynamics Conflict Resolution Sharing Responsibilities Compromise Sibling Bonding Shared Hobbies Sibling Retreats Mutual Support Emotional Support Practical Support Friends Social Support Emotional Support Empathy Validation Practical Support Helping with Tasks Offering Advice Recreational Activities Sports Games Board Game Nights Communication Active Listening Reflective Listening Clarification Assertiveness Setting Boundaries Expressing Needs Conflict Resolution Negotiation Problem-solving Apology and Forgiveness Romantic Intimacy Emotional Intimacy Sharing Feelings Vulnerability Physical Intimacy Sensual Touch Sexual Activity Open Communication Transparency Vulnerability Trust Building Consistency Reliability Conflict Resolution Active Listening Compromise

2 min · 384 words · Shafiq Alibhai

Spirituality

I’ve been thinking a lot about spirituality lately. Not in the abstract, philosophical sense — more like the practical, daily kind. The kind that shows up when you’re sitting in a room full of people and feel completely alone, or when you’re walking through a forest and suddenly remember to breathe. This page is where I’m collecting my thoughts on the subject. It covers religion, philosophy, meditation, and everything in between. Some of it is personal, some of it is research, and some of it is just me trying to figure things out as I go. ...

30 min · 6165 words · Shafiq Alibhai

Terraform

Chapter 1: Introduction to Terraform 1.1 What is Terraform? 1.2 History of Terraform 1.3 Why Use Terraform? 1.4 Terraform vs. Other IaC Tools 1.5 Terraform Use Cases 1.6 Benefits of Using Terraform 1.7 Common Terraform Misconceptions 1.8 Terraform Community and Resources 1.9 Setting up Terraform for the First Time 1.10 Tips for Learning Terraform Chapter 2: Terraform Core Concepts 2.1 Infrastructure as Code (IaC) 2.2 Providers and Plugins 2.3 Resources and Data Sources 2.4 State and State Management 2.5 Configuration and Configuration Files 2.6 Modules and Module Composition 2.7 Input Variables and Output Values 2.8 Functions and Function Composition 2.9 Terraform CLI and API 2.10 Debugging and Troubleshooting Terraform Chapter 3: Terraform Configuration ...

6 min · 1099 words · Shafiq Alibhai

Ubuntu Touch

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Your Playbook for an Amazing Life

Chapter 1.0 - What is an Amazing Life? As we embark on our journey of self-discovery and personal growth, one of the fundamental questions we must confront is: What is an amazing life? This question, simple as it may seem, has profound implications. The answer is not only a reflection of our beliefs, values, and priorities, but it also influences our actions and decisions. It is the lighthouse that guides us when we are lost at sea, the North Star that helps us navigate our way through the complexities of existence. ...

302 min · 63840 words · Shafiq Alibhai